How do you know that your partner is cheating on you?

Cheating doesn´t happen suddenly for no reason. There are always some signs that you may ignore at the moment. It´s time to look at your partner with different eyes and notice those small signs of any cheating. Pay attention to his or her behaviour and maybe you will notice that your love story is sinking like Titanic.

You are in a risky situation if

he or she has been cheated before. It doesn´t matter that your sweetheart hasn´t been cheating on you. The truth is that if someone cheated once he or she can always do that again with you. They say ¨Once a cheater, always a cheater¨.%d0%ba%d0%b0%d0%ba-%d0%b2%d1%8b%d1%87%d0%b8%d1%81%d0%bb%d0%b8%d1%82%d1%8c-%d0%b8%d0%b7%d0%bc%d0%b5%d0%bd%d1%83-%d0%b6%d0%b5%d0%bd%d1%8b

Your partner stopped showing affection in public.

You begin to notice an emotional distance between the two of you. Suddenly you are not the first or even second person that your darling talks to about his or her day. It´s obvious that your partner has found someone else to share some personal details with. We all need a person who truly listens, encourages and supports your ideas. You lose the emotional connection with your partner that’s a huge red flag.

You notice suspicious computer or cell phone activity.

Also, it can be a sign when you notice that your lover likes too many sexy pictures on Facebook or Instagram. It is also suspicious when she or he doesn’t answer certain phone calls when you’re around and looks especially panicked when the phone rings, alert! He/she might be cheating on you!partner

Your sexual life can tell you if your sweetheart is faithful.

Your mate seems disinterested and distracted during sex, that’s a sign but pay attention to changes. Only radical changes are the real sign of unfaithfulness. Let´s say surprising activity in bed like taking the initiative, sudden innovations, positions, variability like you´d never had before it´s a clear symptom of inspiration. The thing is who inspired your partner a new lover or a porn site?

Look, smell, habits…

Your partner started to love jazz, changed a haircut and started to depilate his pubic hair? Why? A new affair, that´s why! The longer you have the relationship the better you know your partner. If he didn´t care about his clothes and suddenly bought lots of brand new items that are no good. She used to leave a house without any makeup but now she can spend that two hours and one extra hour to choose the right dress….Alert! A new enthusiasm about his or her appearance, hobbies or interests is extremely suspicious. He hated the gym and now he lifts weights, she started a diet and lost weight? Well, cheating on somebody is a very emotional thing that requires nerves and energy. It’s not surprising she lost weight! Your mate begins using new catchphrases; it might be an influence of a new friend. If your partner started taking a shower before coming to bed, which sometimes signifies guilt or a desire to avoid detection of the scent of a lover, it is another clue.

Your partner keeps working late but goes out more.

Does your sweetheart spend less time with you? And you are not worried yet? He or she has sudden work emergency or any big projects that he or she didn’t tell you about in advance? If your partner starts working overtime and is hours on sporadic days of the week working late, he might not actually be working…

All these indicators can be warning signs. However, don’t turn your relationship into a situation where you are playing detective. But if you notice numerous changes in behaviour, daily routine or personality of the one you love, and not just isolated incidences, you should discuss together all these signs. You should always trust first, but don’t ignore red flags. Do not always trust your gut feeling. Sometimes it’s just jealousy and insecurity. If you can’t trust someone completely, don’t date him or her. Remember, too much drama in your life is very destructive.